the hsp reason why it all happened

Insecure people become uncomfortable in our company and it may be because we look through them and take up their energy (we become like mirrors).

If we have low self-esteem, we believe that it depends on us and we do everything to appease this person who walks around with fragmented or disturbed energy.

We know immediately when a person says one thing that does not comply with their inner beliefs. We feel the internal conflict and when we dare to bring up the matter, we poke in something unpleasant which that person wants to suppress.

That may be an explanation to why we also know when someone "dislikes" us - even if it is someone we barely talked to. When we approach a person like that with our open mind, they immediately talk about a problem they have which has nothing to do with me. Then I listen and give some comforting words, but nothing more.

Such people know that we know, and it's hard for them if they are used to uphold a fake facade.